September 4, 2012

真心話

聽到你心愛的男人跟你說一些難聽的真心話,真係好難頂。

究竟一開始已是錯?

還是現在知仲未遲?

10 comments:

  1. 最重要係知道說這些真心話的目的…

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  2. 不知你們發生什麼事
    希望你們能好好處理
    最重要他說的真心話目的不是為奚落自己
    有問題就一面對和解決吧!
    加油!! 支持你

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  3. 人在盛怒中會口不擇言,冷靜下來後應該好好的討論一下

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  4. Sweetie, don't get too upset about what he said at that time. Sometimes, men didn't know they speak something too strong or inappropriate things.

    Sometimes, I do think about the same question whether it is still time to say NO at this stage before commiting further. Especially, we had a very bad discussion about choosing wedding gown recently. I cried but he still saying a lot of things which pushing me to the corner. I really wanted to give up and thought I could not be with someone like this for the rest of my life!!!! However, when both of us calmed down, I thought about we had gone through a lot before deciding to open a new page of our lives together.

    Think about the good and sweet things that he had done with you...Don't make rush decision or think too extremely, Sweetie. Support you ga, my dear!!!! Ganbatte!!!

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  5. 唔好咁, 問心, 自己都會有d真心話萬一俾佢知都係好難頂的; 況且可能只係一時氣話~ 佢對你係點, 你應該好有信心的!

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  6. 美國代購DondonShopUSSeptember 5, 2012 at 6:39 AM

    我結咗婚14年, 有甚麼真心話未聽過, 兩個人相處就是這樣---->"磨合", 最緊要明白對方不是有惡意, 好多人都係口直心快, 啖氣過咗咪算囉, 千其唔好稔太多呀!

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  7. 聽到真心話係好事,起碼知道對方點諗,如果想段關係變得好,就應該討論真心話背後的用意。雖然真係好難接受,不過願意接受,代表自己又成熟了。我都學習緊,大家一齊努力吧。

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  8. 只要倆個人之間還有"愛"的存在, 萬大事都有得救!!!

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  9. 我係現實主義者,已經接受自己喺老公眼中不perfect的事實,正如我老公喺我眼中都有缺點。
    只係對住佢,我覺得相處得最舒服、最啱我,咁就夠了。
    其餘的,都不要放上心,因為有時諗返轉頭,自己對佢做咗d好難頂嘅嘢,自己都唔知,係到佢爆發時先知,咁就讓吓佢啦。哈哈!!!!

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  10. 自從開始搞結婚, 我都出現過好多好"白"的對話, 初時真感到好陌生, 還有點害怕, 因為意味到將來還有很多unknown. 我自覺自己會頂唔順, 唔知點好... 像你一樣咁諗, 係咪錯咗, 係咪仲未遲...??!! 很迷惘...朋友說事到如今, 唔好諗咁多, 諗咁多都一樣咪又係繼續行....又好似啱....但心中好多問號....!!??

    近日因男友是天主教的, 必須上婚前講坐才可在教堂行禮. 在中間有一些領略. 首先, 婚姻是不完美的, 兩人是不同的, 吵架或看到很多不滿近乎是一定有的, 只是多與少的問題. 問題是, 二人是否肯定要一生走在一起, 不會分開. 無論將來發生什麼都要一齊. 就算不是大事, 只是生活小節. 好與不好的你都依然愛這個人, 就如父母跟子女一樣, 沒得選擇, 怎樣也堅持愛這個人..所以要好好學習跟這個人相處, 也許這就是愛......加油呀!!!!

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